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Wednesday, August 20, 2014

just say no

hi this is aubrey, and i have a problem. the problem is i can't say no. i guess that's not entirely true. i can say no to bad things like drugs and crime and other bad things. what i can't say no to is people.
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 if you ask me to do something, i will say yes every single time even at my own expense. i will say yes even if i don't have time. i will say yes even if i have no idea how i'm going to pull it off. i really do love helping people. it makes me really happy. for the most part i sincerely want to say yes, but there are a few times when i should probably just say no. i over commit myself and then get really stressed. one of my big goals this year is to have more balance in my life. in order to achieve that balance, sometimes i just have to say no, and that's ok.


  1. I am the same way. I always feel like I need to be helping everyone out because they're probably stressed, and put myself in a position where I get even more stressed! I am with you on this to just say no!

  2. Oh my goodness... I am the SAME EXACT WAY! I really do need to learn how to say no at times, but then I try to take everyone's feelings into account except for my own and always end up screwing myself over but helping others out. Such a vicious cycle!

  3. you really are always super busy and super stressed. as our friend donna would say "treat yo self!" take some time for you. take some time to relax!!


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